A lot of my clients are dealing with men who blow hot and cold, who give conflicting messages, who throw the bones every now and then just enough to keep them at bay but the relationship doesn’t really progress or go anywhere.It is very heartbreaking dealing with an emotionally unavailable man. You never know where you stand or how he truly feels about you. If he’s really emotionally unavailable or is just not that into you.Whatever the reason it’s not advisable to take these men seriously. The problem is the relationship is often too good to leave but too bad to stay in. You are stuck. Either way you feel the pain. If you are a woman expecting to marry and start a family soon before your reproductive years cease, this can be very damaging. Watch video in link below
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Emotional unavailability is real. Many men at some point or another, sometimes for no particular reason, are going through this stage. When they are in this mode, there is really little you can do to change their mind set. Words definitely won’t do it. They have to process their own feelings until they come out of that state by themselves.As a woman, it’s important to detect this early enough before you get too attached to think straight and do the right thing. Unfortunately, for most women in their 30’s and 40’s who are still single or have just come out of a divorce or a long-term relationship, coming across this species and dating them -and often falling in love with them- is inevitable. There are so many of these men out there.